THERE is no relation in life so important—none
involving so much of
happiness or misery, as that of husband and wife.
Yet, how rarely is
it, that the parties when contracting this relation,
have large
experience, clear insight into character, or truly
know themselves!
In each other, they may have the tenderest confidence,
and for each
other the warmest love; but, only a brief time can
pass ere they
will discover that the harmonious progression of two
minds, each of
which has gained an individual and independent movement
is not
always a thing of easy attainment. Too soon,
alas! is felt a jar of
discord—too soon self-will claims an individual
freedom of action
that is not fully accorded; and unless there is wisdom
and
forbearance, temporary or permanent unhappiness is
sure to follow.
Much has been written on the true relation of married
partners, and
we cannot do a better service to the bride and bridegroom,
than by
gathering words of wisdom on this subject from all
sources within
our reach, and presenting them in as attractive a
form as possible.
And this we have done in the present volume, to which,
as the
title-page indicates, we bear only the relation of
editor. In it
will be found pictures of life, serious counsel, earnest
admonition,
and hints and suggestions, which, if wisely followed,
will keep the
sky bright with sunshine, or scatter the gathering
clouds ere they
break in angry storms. May this “WEDDING
GUEST” receive as warm a
welcome as we desire.
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