THE THREAT OF THE MATRIARCHATE
I
It is possible that if the European
War had been averted the history of Feminism would
have made far different reading—say fifty
years hence. The militant suffragettes of England
had degenerated from something like real politicians
into mere neurasthenics and not only had lost what
little chance they seemed for a time to have of being
taken seriously by the British Government, but had
very nearly alienated the many thousands of women
without the ranks that were wavering in the balance.
This was their most serious mistake, for the chief
handicap of the militants had been that too few women
were disposed toward suffrage, or even interested.
The history of the world shows that when any large
body of people in a community want anything long enough
and hard enough, and go after it with practical methods,
they obtain it in one form or another. But the
women of Britain as well as the awakening women of
other nations east and west of the Atlantic, were
so disgusted and alarmed by this persisting lack of
self-control in embryonic politicians of their sex
that they voted silently to preserve their sanity
under the existing régime. It has formed one
of the secret sources of the strength of the antis,
that fear of the complete demoralization of their
sex if freed from the immemorial restraints imposed
by man.
This attitude of mind does not argue
a very distinguished order of reasoning powers or
of clear thinking; but then not too many men, in spite
of their centuries of uninterrupted opportunity, face
innovations or radical reforms with unerring foresight.
There is a strong conservative instinct in the average
man or woman, born of the hereditary fear of life,
that prompts them to cling to old standards, or, if
too intelligent to look inhospitably upon progress,
to move very slowly. Both types are the brakes
and wheel-horses necessary to a stable civilization,
but history, even current history in the newspapers,
would be dull reading if there were no adventurous
spirits willing to do battle for new ideas. The
militant women of England would have accomplished
wonders if their nervous systems had not broken down
under the prolonged strain.
It is probable that after this war
is over the women of the belligerent nations will
be given the franchise by the weary men that are left,
if they choose to insist upon it. They have shown
the same bravery, endurance, self-sacrifice, resource,
and grim determination as the men. In every war,
it may be argued, women have displayed the same spirit
and the same qualities, proving that they needed but
the touchstone of opportunity to reveal the splendor
of their endowment, but treated by man, as soon as
peace was restored, as the same old inferior annex.
This is true enough, but the point
of difference is that never, prior to the Great War,
was such an enormous body of women awake after the
lethargic submission of centuries, and clamoring for
their rights. Never before have millions of women
been supporting themselves; never before had they
even contemplated organization and the direct political
attack. Of course the women of Europe, exalted
and worked half to death, have, with the exception
of a few irrepressibles, put all idea of self-aggrandizement
aside for the moment; but this idea had grown too
big and too dominant to be dismissed for good and all,
with last year’s fashions and the memory of delicate
plats prepared by chefs now serving valiantly
within the lines. The big idea, the master desire,
the obsession, if you like, is merely taking an enforced
rest, and there is persistent speculation as to what
the thinking and the energetic women of Europe will
do when this war is over, and how far men will help
or hinder them.
I have written upon this question
in its bearings upon the women of France more fully
in another chapter; but it may be stated here that
such important feminists as Madame Vérone, the eminent
avocat, and Mlle. Valentine Thompson, the youngest
but one of the ablest of the leaders, while doing
everything to help and nothing to embarrass their
Government, never permit the question to recede wholly
to the background. Mlle. Thompson argues
that the men in authority should not be permitted
for a moment to forget, not the services of women in
this terrible chapter of France’s destiny, for
that is a matter of course, as ever, but the marked
capabilities women have shown when suddenly thrust
into positions of authority. In certain invaded
towns the wives of imprisoned or executed Mayors have
taken their place almost automatically and served
with a capacity unrelated to sex. In some of
these towns women have managed the destinies of the
people since the first month of the war, understanding
them as no man has ever done, and working harder than
most men are ever willing to work. Thousands
have, under the spur, developed unsuspected capacities,
energies, endurance, above all genuine executive abilities.
That these women should be swept back into private
life by the selfishness of men when the killing business
is over, is, to Mlle. Thompson’s mind,
unthinkable. In her newspaper, La Vie Feminine,
she gives weekly instances of the resourcefulness
and devotion of French womanhood, and although the
women of her country have never taken as kindly to
the idea of demanding the franchise as those of certain
other nations, still it is more than possible that
she will make many converts before the war is over.
These are not to be “suffrage”
chapters. There is no doubt in my mind that the
women of all nations will have the franchise eventually,
if only because it is ridiculous that they should
be permitted to work like men (often supporting husbands,
fathers, brothers) and not be permitted all the privileges
of men. Man, who grows more enlightened every
year—often sorely against his will—must
appreciate this anomaly in due course, and by degrees
will surrender the franchise as freely to women as
he has to negroes and imbeciles. When women have
received the vote for which they have fought and bled,
they will use it with just about the same proportion
of conscientiousness and enthusiasm as busy men do.
One line in the credo might have been written of human
nature A.D. 1914-1917: “As it was in the
beginning, is now, and ever shall be.”
But while suffrage and feminism are
related, they are far from identical. Suffrage
is but a milestone in feminism, which may be described
as the more or less concerted sweep of women from the
backwaters into the broad central stream of life.
Having for untold centuries given men to the world
they now want the world from men. There is no
question in the progressive minds of both sexes that,
outside of the ever-recurrent war zones, they should
hereafter divide the great privileges of life and
civilization in equal shares with men.
Several times before in the history
of the world comparatively large numbers of women
have made themselves felt, claiming certain equal
rights with the governing sex. But their ambitions
were generally confined to founding religious orders,
obtaining admission to the universities, or to playing
the intellectual game in the social preserves.
In the wonderful thirteenth century women rivaled men
in learning and accomplishments, in vigor of mind
and decision of character. But this is the first
time that millions of them have been out in the world
“on their own,” invading almost every field
of work, for centuries sacrosanct to man. There
is even a boiler-maker in the United States who worked
her way up in poor-boy fashion and now attends conventions
of boiler-makers on equal terms. In tens of thousands
of cases women have made good, in the arts, professions,
trades, businesses, clerical positions, and even in
agriculture and cattle raising. They are brilliant
aviators, yachtsmen, automobile drivers, showing failure
of nerve more rarely than men, although, as they are
not engaged in these pursuits in equal numbers perhaps
that is not a fair statement. Suffice it to say
that as far as they have gone they have asked for
no quarter. It is quite true that in certain
of the arts, notably music, they have never equaled
men, and it has been held against them that all the
great chefs are men. Here it is quite justifiable
to take refuge in the venerable axiom, “Rome
was not made in a day.” It is not what
they have failed to accomplish with their grinding
disabilities but the amazing number of things in which
they have shown themselves the equal if not the superior
of men. Whether their success is to be permanent,
or whether they have done wisely in invading man’s
domain so generally, are questions to be attacked
later when considering the biological differences between
men and women. The most interesting problem relating
to women that confronts us at present is the effect
of the European War on the whole status of woman.
If the war ends before this nation
is engulfed we shall at least keep our men, and the
males of this country are so far in excess of the
females that it is odd so many American women should
be driven to self-support. In Great Britain the
women have long outnumbered the men; it was estimated
before the war that there were some three hundred
thousand spinsters for whom no husbands were available.
After the war there will be at best something like
a proportion of one whole man to three women (confining
these unwelcome prophecies to people of marriageable
age); and the other afflicted countries, with the
possible exception of Russia, will show a similar dislocation
of the normal balance. The acute question will
be repopulation—with a view to another
trial of military supremacy a generation hence!—and
all sorts of expedients are being suggested, from
polygamy to artificial fertilization. It may
be that the whole future of woman as well as of civilization
after this war is over depends upon whether she concludes
to serve the State or herself.
While in France in the summer of 1916,
I heard childless women say: “Would that
I had six sons to give to France!” I heard unmarried
women say: “Thank heaven I never married!”
I heard bitterness expressed by bereft mothers, terror
and despair by others when the curtain had rung down
and they could relax the proud and smiling front they
presented to the world. Not one would have had
her son shirk his duty, nor asked for compromise with
the enemy, but all prayed for the war to end.
It is true that these men at the front are heroes in
the eyes of their women, worshiped by the majority
when they come home briefly as permissionnaires, and
it is also true that France is an old military nation
and that the brain-cells of its women are full of
ancestral memories of war. But never before have
women done as much thinking for themselves as they
are doing to-day, as they had done for some fifteen
or twenty years before the war. That war has now
lasted almost three years. During this long and
terrible period there has been scarcely a woman in
France, as in Britain, Russia, Italy, Germany, who
has not done her share behind the lines, working, at
her self-appointed tasks or at those imposed by the
Government, for months on end without a day of rest.
They have had contacts that never would have approached
them otherwise, they have been obliged to think for
themselves, for thousands of helpless poor, for the
men at the Front. The Frenchwomen particularly
have forced men to deal with them as human beings
and respect them as such, dissipating in some measure
those mists of sex through which the Frenchman loves
to stalk in search of the elusive and highly-sophisticated
quarry. As long as a woman was sexually attractive
she could never hope to meet man on an equal footing,
no matter how entrancing he might find her mental
qualities. She must play hide-and-seek, exercise
finesse, seduction, keep the flag of sex flying ever
on the ramparts. It is doubtful if Frenchmen
will change in this respect, but it is more than doubtful
if women do not.
There is hardly any doubt that if
this war lasts long enough women for the first time
in the history of civilization will have it in their
power to seize one at least of the world’s reins.
But will they do it—I am now speaking of
women in mass, not of the advanced thinkers, or of
women of the world who have so recently ascertained
that there is a special joy in being free of the tyranny
of sex, a tyranny that emanated no less from within
than without.
It is to be imagined that all the
men who are fighting in this most trying of all wars
are heroes in the eyes of European women—as
well they may be—and that those who survive
are likely to be regarded with a passionate admiration
not unmixed with awe. The traditional weakness
of women where men are concerned (which after all is
but a cunning device of Nature) may swamp their great
opportunity. They may fight over the surviving
males like dogs over a bone, marry with sensations
of profound gratitude (or patriotic fervor) the armless,
the legless, the blind, the terrible face mutilés,
and drop forever out of the ranks of Woman as differentiated
from the ranks of mere women. What has hampered
the cause of Woman in Great Britain and Europe so far
is the quite remarkable valuation put upon the male
by the female. This is partly temperamental,
partly female preponderance, but it is even more deeply
rooted in those vanished centuries during which man
proclaimed and maintained his superiority. Circumstances
helped him for thousands of years, and he has been
taken by the physically weaker and child-bearing sex
at his own estimate. It is difficult for American
women to appreciate this almost servile attitude of
even British women to mere man. One of the finest
things about the militant woman, one by which she
scored most heavily, was her flinging off of this
tradition and displaying a shining armor of indifference
toward man as man. This startled the men almost
as much as the window smashing, and made other women,
living out their little lives under the frowns and
smiles of the dominant male, think and ponder, wonder
if their small rewards amounted to half as much as
the untasted pleasures of power and independence.
It is always a sign of weakness to
give one side of a picture and blithely ignore the
other. Therefore, let me hasten to add that it
is a well-known fact that Mrs. Pankhurst had borne
and reared six children before she took up the moribund
cause of suffrage; and that after a season’s
careful investigation in London at the height of the
militant movement I concluded that never in the world
had so many unattractive females been banded together
in any one cause. Even the young girls I heard
speaking on street corners, mounted on boxes, looked
gray, dingy, sexless. Of course there were many
handsome, even lovely, women,—like Mrs.
Cavendish-Bentinck and Lady Hall, for instance—interested
in “the movement,” contributing funds,
and giving it a certain moral support; but when it
came to the window smashers, the jail seekers, the
hunger-strikers, the real martyrs of that extraordinary
minor chapter of England’s history, there was
only one good-looking woman in the entire army—Mrs.
Pethick-Lawrence—and militant extravagances
soon became too much for her. There were intelligent
women galore, women of the aristocracy born with a
certain style, and showing their breeding even on
the soap-box, but sexually attractive women never,
and even the youngest seemed to have been born without
the bloom of youth. The significance of this,
however, works both ways. If men did not want
them, at least there was something both noble and
pitiful in their willingness to sacrifice those dreams
and hopes which are the common heritage of the lovely
and the plain, the old and the young, the Circe and
the Amazon, to the ultimate freedom of those millions
of their sisters lulled or helpless in the enchanted
net of sex.
It is doubtful if even the militants
can revert to their former singleness of purpose;
after many months, possibly years, of devotion to
duty, serving State and man, the effacement of self,
appreciation of the naked fact that the integrity
of their country matters more than anything else on
earth, they may be quite unable to rebound to their
old fanatical attitude toward suffrage as the one important
issue of the Twentieth Century. Even the very
considerable number of those women that have reached
an appearance which would eliminate them from the
contest over such men as are left may be so chastened
by the hideous sufferings they have witnessed or heard
of daily, so moved by the astounding endurance and
grim valor of man (who nearest approaches to godhood
in time of war) that they will have lost the disposition
to tear from him the few compensations the new era
of peace can offer. If that is the case, if women
at the end of the war are soft, completely rehabilitated
in that femininity, or femaleness, which was their
original endowment from Nature, the whole great movement
will subside, and the work must begin over again by
unborn women and their accumulated grievances some
fifty years hence.
Nothing is more sure than that Nature
will take advantage of the lull to make a desperate
attempt to recover her lost ground. Progressive
women, and before the war their ranks were recruited
daily, were one of the most momentous results of the
forces of the higher civilization, an evolution that
in Nature’s eye represented a lamentable divergence
from type. Here is woman, with all her physical
disabilities, become man’s rival in all of the
arts, save music, and in nearly all of the productive
walks of life, as well as in a large percentage of
the professional and executive; intellectually the
equal if not the superior of the average man—who
in these days, poor devil, is born a specialist—and
making a bold bid for political equality.
It has been a magnificent accomplishment,
and it has marked one of the most brilliant and picturesque
milestones in human progress. It seems incredible
that woman, in spite of the tremendous pressure that
Nature will put upon her, may revert weakly to type.
The most powerful of all the forces working for Nature
and against feminism will be the quite brutal and
obscene naturalness of war, and the gross familiarity
of civilization with it for so long a period.
There is reversion to type with a vengeance!
The ablest of the male inheritors of the accumulated
wisdom and experiences and civilizing influences of
the ages were in power prior to August 1914, and not
one of them nor all combined had the foresight to
circumvent, or the diplomatic ingenuity to keep in
leash the panting Hun. They are settling their
scores, A.D. 1914-1917, by brute fighting. There
has been some brain work during this war so far, but
a long sight more brute work. As it was in the
beginning, etc.
And the women, giving every waking
hour to ameliorating the lot of the defenders of their
hearth and their honor, or nursing the wounded in
hospital, have been stark up against the physical side:
whether making bombs in factories, bandages or uniforms,
washing gaping wounds, preparing shattered bodies
for burial, or listening to the horrid tales of men
and women home on leave.
II
The European woman, in spite of her
exalted pitch, is living a more or less mechanical
life at present. Even where she has revealed
unsuspected creative ability, as soon as her particular
task is mapped she subsides into routine. As
a rule she is quite automatically and naturally performing
those services and duties for which Nature so elaborately
equipped her, ministering to man almost exclusively,
even when temporarily filling his place in the factory
and the tram-car. Dienen! Dienen! is the
motto of one and all of these Kundrys, whether they
realize it or not, and it is on the cards that they
may never again wish to somersault back to that mental
attitude where they would dominate not serve.
On the other hand civilization may
for once prove stronger than Nature. Thinking
women—and there are a few hundred thousands
of them—may emerge from this hideous reversion
of Europe to barbarism with an utter contempt for
man. They may despise the men of affairs for
muddling Europe into the most terrible war in history,
in the very midst of the greatest civilization of
which there is any record. They may experience
a secret but profound revulsion from the men wallowing
in blood and filth for months on end, living only to
kill. The fact that the poor men can’t
help it does not alter the case. The women can’t
help it either. Women have grown very fastidious.
The sensual women and the quite unimaginative women
will not be affected, but how about the others?
And only men of the finest grain survive a long period
of war with the artificial habits of civilization strong
upon them.
The end of this war may mark a conclusive
revulsion of the present generation of European women
from men that may last until they have passed the
productive age. Instead of softening, disintegrating
back to type, they may be insensibly hardening inside
a mould that will eventually cast them forth a more
definite third sex than any that threatened before
the war. Woman, blind victim of the race as she
has been for centuries, seldom in these days loves
without an illusion of the senses or of the imagination.
She has ceased, in the wider avenues of life, lined
as they are with the opulent wares of twentieth century
civilization, to be merely the burden-bearing and reproductive
sex. Life has taught her the inestimable value
of illusions, and the more practical she becomes,
the more she cherishes this divine gift. It is
possible that man has forfeited his power to cast a
glamour over all but the meanest types of women.
If that should be the case women will ask: Why
settle down and keep house for the tiresome creatures,
study their whims, and meekly subside into the second
place, or be eternally on the alert for equal rights?
As for children? Let the state suffer for its
mistakes. Why bring more children into the world
to be blown to pieces on the field of battle, or a
burden to their women throughout interminable years?
No! For a generation at least the world shall
be ours, and then it may limp along with a depleted
population or go to the dogs.
Few, no doubt, will reason it out
as elaborately as this or be so consciously ruthless,
but a large enough number are likely enough to bring
the light of their logic to bear upon the opportunity,
and a still larger number to feel an obscure sense
of revolt against man for his failure to uphold civilization
against the Prussian anachronism, combined with a
more definite desire for personal liberty. And
both of these divisions of their sex are likely to
alter the course of history—far more radically
than has ever happened before at the close of any
fighting period. Even the much depended upon maternal
instinct may subside, partly under the horrors of
field hospitals where so many mother’s sons
are ghastly wrecks, partly under a heavy landslide
of disgust that the sex that has ruled the world should
apparently be so helpless against so obscene a fate.
They will reflect that if women are
weak (comparatively) physically, there is all the
more hope they may develop into giants mentally; one
of man’s handicaps being that his more highly
vitalized body with its coercive demands, is ever
waging war with a consistent and complete development
of the mind. And in these days, when the science
of the body is so thoroughly understood, any woman,
unless afflicted with an organic disease, is able
to keep her brain constantly supplied with red unpoisoned
blood, and may wax in mental powers (there being no
natural physical deteriorations in the brain as in
the body) so long as life lasts.
Certainly these women will say:
We could have done no worse than these chess players
of Europe and we might have done better. Assuredly
if we grasp and hold the reins of the world there
will never be another war. We are not, in the
first place, as greedy as men; we will divide the
world up in strict accordance with race, and let every
nation have its own place in the sun. Commercial
greed has no place in our make-up, and with the hideous
examples of history it will never obtain entrance.
How often has it been the cynical
pleasure of mere ministers of state to use kings as
pawns? Well, we despise the game. Also, we
shall have no kings, and republics are loth to make
war. Our instincts are humanitarian. We
should like to see all the world as happy as that
lovely countryside of Northeastern France before August
1914. We at least recognize that the human mind
is as yet imperfectly developed; and if, instead of
setting the world back periodically, and drenching
mankind in misery, we would have all men and women
as happy as human nature will permit, we should devote
our abilities, uninterrupted by war, to solving the
problem of poverty (the acutest evidence of man’s
failure), and to fostering the talents of millions
of men and women that to-day constitute a part of
the wastage of Earth. Of course, being mortal,
we shall make mistakes, give way, no doubt, to racial
jealousies, and personal ambitions; but our eyes have
been opened wide by this war and it is impossible
that we should make the terrible mistakes we inevitably
would have made had we obtained power before we had
seen and read its hideous revelations—day
after day, month after month, year after year!
It is true that men have made these resolutions many
times, but men have too much of the sort of blood
that goes to the head, and their lust for money is
even greater than their lust for power.
Now, this may sound fantastic but
it is indisputably probable. Much has been said
of the patriotic exaltation of young women during war
and just after its close, which leads them to marry
almost any one in order to give a son to the state,
or even to dispense with the legal formality.
But although I heard a great deal of that sort of talk
during the first months of the war I don’t hear
so much of it now. Nor did I hear anything like
as much of it in France as I expected. To quote
one woman of great intelligence with whom I talked
many times, and who is one of the Government’s
chosen aids; she said one day, “It was a terrible
distress to me that I had only one child, and I consulted
every specialist in France. Now I am thankful
that I did have but one son to come home to me with
a gangrene wound, and then, after months of battling
for his life, to insist upon going back to the Front
and exposing it every day. I used to feel sad,
too, that Valentine Thompson” (who is not only
beautiful but an Amazon in physique) “did not
marry and be happy like other girls, instead of becoming
a public character and working at first one scheme
or another for the amelioration of the lot of woman.
Now, I am thankful that she never married. Her
father is too old to go to war and she has neither
husband nor son to agonize over. Far better she
live the life of usefulness she does than deliberately
take upon herself the common burdens of women.”
No Frenchwoman could be more patriotic than the one
who made this speech to me, and if she had had many
sons she would have girded them all for war, but she
had suffered too much herself and she saw too much
suffering among her friends daily, not to hate the
accursed institution of war, and wish that as many
women could be spared its brutal impositions as possible.
Nobody has ever accused me of being
a Pacifist. Personally, I think that every self-respecting
nation on the globe should have risen in 1914 and
assisted the Allies to blast Prussia off the face of
the Earth, but after this war is over if the best
brains in these nations do not at once get to work
and police the world against future wars, it will
be a matter for regret that they were not all on the
German ship when she foundered.
III
It is to be remembered that woman
has, in her subconscious brain-cells, ancestral memories
of the Matriarchate. It is interesting to quote
in this connection what Patrick Geddes and G. Arthur
Thompson have to say on the mooted question of the
Mother-Age:
“Prehistoric history is hazardous,
but there is a good case to be made out for a Mother-Age.
This has been reconstructed from fossils in the folk
lore of agriculture and housewifery, in old customs,
ceremonies, festivals, games; in myths and fairy tales
and age-worn words.
“Professor Karl Pierson finds
in the study of witchcraft some of the fossils that
point back to the Matriarchate. In the older traditions
’the witch resumes her old position as the wise-woman,
the medicine woman, the leader of the people, the
priestess.’ ’We have accordingly
to look upon the witch as essentially the degraded
form of the old priestess, cunning in the knowledge
of herbs and medicine, jealous of the rights and of
the goddess she serves, and preserving in spells and
incantations such wisdom as early civilization possessed.’
“The witch’s weather wisdom
is congruent with the fact that women were the earliest
agriculturists; her knowledge of herbs with that of
the ancient medicine women; her diablerie with that
of the ancient group relations of the sexes so different
from what we call marriage to-day; her nocturnal dances
with the ancient choruses of marriage-ripe maidens.
The authority and magic circle kept by the broom are
those of the hearth and floor in her primeval roundhut;
and her distaff and pitchfork, her caldron, her cat
and dog, are all in keeping with the rôle of woman
in the Mother-Age.
“But there is another way, and
that certainly not less reliable, by which we can
arrive at some understanding of the Mother-Age, and
how it naturally came about, namely, by a study of
our ’contemporary ancestors,’ of people
who linger on the matriarchal level. Such people,
as well as others on the still lower nomad stage of
civilization, are to be found at this day in Australia.
“While the purely nomad stage
lasted, little progress could be made, because the
possessions of a group were limited by the carrying
powers of its members. But in a favorite forest
spot a long halt was possible, the mothers were able
to drop their babies and give a larger part of their
attention to food-getting. As before, the forest
products—roots and fruits—were
gathered in, but more time and ingenuity were expended
in making them palatable and in storing them for future
use. The plants in the neighborhood, which were
useful for food or for their healing properties, were
tended and kept free of weeds, and by and by seeds
of them were sown in cleared ground within easy reach
of the camp. Animals gathered about the rich food
area, and were at first tolerated—certain
negro tribes to-day keep hens about their huts, though
they eat neither them nor their eggs—and
later encouraged as a stable source of food-supply.
The group was anchored to one spot by its increasing
possessions; and thus home-making, gardening, medicine,
the domestication of animals and even agriculture,
were fairly begun. Not only were all these activities
in the hands of women, but to them, too, were necessarily
left the care and training of the young.
“The men meanwhile went away
on warlike expeditions against other groups, and on
long hunting and fishing excursions, from which they
returned with their spoils from time to time, to be
welcomed by the women with dancing and feasting.
Hunting and war were their only occupations, and the
time between expeditions was spent in resting and
in interminable palavers and dances, which we may perhaps
look upon as the beginnings of parliaments and music
halls.
“Whether this picture be accurate
in detail or not there is at any rate a considerable
body of evidence pointing to the ‘Matriarchate’
as a period during which women began medicine, the
domestication of the smaller animals, the cultivation
of vegetables, flax and corn, the use of the distaff,
the spindle, the broom, the fire-rake and the pitchfork.
“In the Mother-Age the inheritance
of property passed through the mother; the woman gave
the children her own name; husband and father were
in the background—often far from individualized;
the brother and uncle were much more important; the
woman was the depository of custom, lore, and religious
tradition; she was, at least, the nominal head of
the family, and she had a large influence in tribal
affairs.”
For some years past certain progressive
women have shown signs of a reversion to the matriarchal
state—or shall we say a disposition to
revive it? In spite of human progress we travel
more or less in circles, a truth of which the present
war and its reversions is the most uncompromising
example.
In the married state, for instance,
these women have retained their own name, not even
being addressed as Mrs., that after all is a polite
variation of the Spanish “de,” which does
not by any means indicate noble birth alone, women
after marriage proudly announcing themselves as legally
possessed. For instance a girl whose name has
been Elena Lopez writes herself after marriage Elena
Lopez de Morena, the “de” in this case
standing for “property of.” It will
be some time before the women of Spain travel far
on the Northern road toward pride in sex deliverance,
but with us, and in Britain, the custom is growing
prevalent.
Then there is the hyphen marriage,
more common still, in which the woman retains her
own name, but condescends to annex the man’s.
Once in a way a man will prefix his wife’s name
to his own, and there is one on record who prefixed
his own to his wife’s. But any woman may
have her opinion of him.
So far as I have been able to ascertain
these marriages are quite as successful as the average;
and if the woman has a career on hand—and
she generally has—she pursues it unhampered.
The grandmother or aunt takes charge of the children,
if there are any, while she is at her duties without
the home, and so far, the husband has been permitted
the compensation of endowing the children with his
name.
The reversion to the prehistoric matriarchate
can hardly be complete in these days, but there are
many significant straws that indicate the rising of
a new wind blown by ancient instincts. To look
upon them as shockingly advanced or abnormal is an
evidence of conservatism that does not reach quite
far enough into the past.
A still more significant sign of the
times (in the sense of linking past with present)
is the ever-increasing number of women doctors and
their success. Men for the most part have ceased
to sneer or even to be more than humanly jealous,
often speaking in terms of the warmest admiration
not only of their skill but of their conscientiousness
and power of endurance. When I went to live in
Munich (1903) a woman surgeon was just beginning to
practice. This, to Germany, was an innovation
with a vengeance, and the German male is the least
tolerant of female encroachment within his historic
preserves. The men practitioners threw every
possible obstacle in her way, and with no particular
finesse. But nothing could daunt her, and two
or three years later she was riding round in her car—a
striking red one—while the major number
of her rivals were still dependent upon the ambling
cab-horse, directed off and on by a fat driver who
was normally asleep. Jealousy, however, for the
most part had merged into admiration; for your average
male, of whatever race, is not only philosophical
but bows to success; she was both recognized and called
in for consultation. Hang on! Hang on! should
be the motto of all women determined to make their
mark in what is still a man’s world. Life
never has denied her prizes to courage and persistence
backed by ability.
A curious instance of man’s
inevitable recognition of the places of responsibility
women more and more are taking is in the new reading
of the Income Tax papers for 1917. Heretofore
only married men were exempted taxation on the first
$4000 but from now on, apparently, women who are also
“heads of families” are likewise favored.
As thousands of women are supporting their aged parents,
their brothers while studying, their children and
even their husbands, who for one reason or other are
unequal to the family strain, this exemption should
have been made coincidentally with the imposing of
the tax. But men are slow to see and slower still
to act where women are concerned.
As we all know, women have invaded
practically every art, trade, and industry, but—aside
from the arts, for occasionally Nature is so impartial
in her bestowal of genius that art is accepted as
sexless—in no walk of life has woman been
so uniformly successful as in medicine. This
is highly significant in view of the fact that they
invented and practiced it in the dawn of history, while
man was too rudimentary to do anything but fight and
fill the larder. It would seem that the biological
differences between the male and the female which
are so often the cause of woman’s failure in
many spheres preëmpted throughout long centuries by
man, is in her case counteracted not only by her ancestral
inheritance, but by the high moral element without
which no doctor or surgeon can long stand the exactions
and strain of his terrible profession. No woman
goes blithely into surgery or medicine merely to have
a career or to make a living, although ten thousand
girls to her one will essay to write, or paint, or
clerk, or cultivate her bit of voice, with barely a
thought expended upon her fitness or the obligations
involved.
But the woman who deliberately enters
the profession of healing has, almost invariably,
a certain nobility of mind, a lack of personal selfishness,
and a power of devotion to the race quite unknown to
the average woman, even the woman of genius when seeking
a career.
During the Great War there have been
few women doctors at the Front, but hundreds of women
nurses, and they have been as intrepid and useful
as their rivals in sex. They alone, by their previous
experience of human suffering, bad enough at best,
were in a measure prepared for the horrors of war
and the impotence of men laid low. But that will
not restore any lost illusions, for they took masculine
courage for granted with their mothers’ milk,
and they cannot fail to be imbued to the marrow with
a bitter sense of waste and futility, of the monstrous
sacrifice of the best blood of their generation.