This is a story told by the late Benson
Foley of San Francisco:
“In the summer of 1881 I met
a man named James H. Conway, a resident of Franklin,
Tennessee. He was visiting San Francisco for
his health, deluded man, and brought me a note of
introduction from Mr. Lawrence Barting. I had
known Barting as a captain in the Federal army during
the civil war. At its close he had settled in
Franklin, and in time became, I had reason to think,
somewhat prominent as a lawyer. Barting had
always seemed to me an honorable and truthful man,
and the warm friendship which he expressed in his note
for Mr. Conway was to me sufficient evidence that
the latter was in every way worthy of my confidence
and esteem. At dinner one day Conway told me
that it had been solemnly agreed between him and Barting
that the one who died first should, if possible, communicate
with the other from beyond the grave, in some unmistakable
way—just how, they had left (wisely, it
seemed to me) to be decided by the deceased, according
to the opportunities that his altered circumstances
might present.
“A few weeks after the conversation
in which Mr. Conway spoke of this agreement, I met
him one day, walking slowly down Montgomery street,
apparently, from his abstracted air, in deep thought.
He greeted me coldly with merely a movement of the
head and passed on, leaving me standing on the walk,
with half-proffered hand, surprised and naturally
somewhat piqued. The next day I met him again
in the office of the Palace Hotel, and seeing him
about to repeat the disagreeable performance of the
day before, intercepted him in a doorway, with a friendly
salutation, and bluntly requested an explanation of
his altered manner. He hesitated a moment; then,
looking me frankly in the eyes, said:
“’I do not think, Mr.
Foley, that I have any longer a claim to your friendship,
since Mr. Barting appears to have withdrawn his own
from me—for what reason, I protest I do
not know. If he has not already informed you
he probably will do so.’
“‘But,’ I replied,
‘I have not heard from Mr. Barting.’
“‘Heard from him!’
he repeated, with apparent surprise. ’Why,
he is here. I met him yesterday ten minutes
before meeting you. I gave you exactly the same
greeting that he gave me. I met him again not
a quarter of an hour ago, and his manner was precisely
the same: he merely bowed and passed on.
I shall not soon forget your civility to me.
Good morning, or—as it may please you—farewell.’
“All this seemed to me singularly
considerate and delicate behavior on the part of Mr.
Conway.
“As dramatic situations and
literary effects are foreign to my purpose I will
explain at once that Mr. Barting was dead. He
had died in Nashville four days before this conversation.
Calling on Mr. Conway, I apprised him of our friend’s
death, showing him the letters announcing it.
He was visibly affected in a way that forbade me
to entertain a doubt of his sincerity.
“‘It seems incredible,’
he said, after a period of reflection. ’I
suppose I must have mistaken another man for Barting,
and that man’s cold greeting was merely a stranger’s
civil acknowledgment of my own. I remember,
indeed, that he lacked Barting’s mustache.’
“‘Doubtless it was another
man,’ I assented; and the subject was never
afterward mentioned between us. But I had in
my pocket a photograph of Barting, which had been
inclosed in the letter from his widow. It had
been taken a week before his death, and was without
a mustache.”