How the longest ennui flees, When
a man comes to our knees!
Age, alas! and science staid, Furnish
even weak virtue aid.
Sombre garb and silence meet:
Dress for every dame—discreet.
Whom I thank when in my bliss?
God!—and my good tailoress!
Young, a flower-decked cavern home;
Old, a dragon thence doth roam.
Noble title, leg that’s fine,
Man as well: Oh, were he mine!
Speech in brief and sense in mass—Slippery
for the jenny-ass!
237A. Woman has hitherto been
treated by men like birds, which, losing their way,
have come down among them from an elevation: as
something delicate, fragile, wild, strange, sweet,
and animating—but as something also which must be
cooped up to prevent it flying away.
238. To be mistaken in the fundamental
problem of “man and woman,” to deny here
the profoundest antagonism and the necessity for an
eternally hostile tension, to dream here perhaps of
equal rights, equal training, equal claims and obligations:
that is a typical sign of shallow-mindedness;
and a thinker who has proved himself shallow at this
dangerous spot—shallow in instinct!—may
generally be regarded as suspicious, nay more, as betrayed,
as discovered; he will probably prove too “short”
for all fundamental questions of life, future as well
as present, and will be unable to descend into any
of the depths. On the other hand, a man who has
depth of spirit as well as of desires, and has also
the depth of benevolence which is capable of severity
and harshness, and easily confounded with them, can
only think of woman as ORIENTALS do: he must
conceive of her as a possession, as confinable property,
as a being predestined for service and accomplishing
her mission therein—he must take his stand
in this matter upon the immense rationality of Asia,
upon the superiority of the instinct of Asia, as the
Greeks did formerly; those best heirs and scholars
of Asia—who, as is well known, with their
increasing culture and amplitude of power, from
Homer to the time of Pericles, became gradually STRICTER
towards woman, in short, more Oriental. How
necessary, how logical, even how humanely
desirable this was, let us consider for ourselves!
239. The weaker sex has in no
previous age been treated with so much respect by
men as at present—this belongs to the tendency
and fundamental taste of democracy, in the same way
as disrespectfulness to old age—what wonder
is it that abuse should be immediately made of this
respect? They want more, they learn to make claims,
the tribute of respect is at last felt to be well-nigh
galling; rivalry for rights, indeed actual strife
itself, would be preferred: in a word, woman is
losing modesty. And let us immediately add that
she is also losing taste. She is unlearning to
fear man: but the woman who “unlearns
to fear” sacrifices her most womanly instincts.
That woman should venture forward when the fear-inspiring
quality in man—or more definitely, the
man in man—is no longer either desired
or fully developed, is reasonable enough and also
intelligible enough; what is more difficult to understand
is that precisely thereby— woman deteriorates.
This is what is happening nowadays: let us not
deceive ourselves about it! Wherever the industrial
spirit has triumphed over the military and aristocratic
spirit, woman strives for the economic and legal independence
of a clerk: “woman as clerkess” is
inscribed on the portal of the modern society which
is in course of formation. While she thus appropriates
new rights, aspires to be “master,” and
inscribes “progress” of woman on her flags
and banners, the very opposite realises itself with
terrible obviousness: Woman RETROGRADES.
Since the French Revolution the influence of woman
in Europe has declined in proportion as she has
increased her rights and claims; and the “emancipation
of woman,” insofar as it is desired and demanded
by women themselves (and not only by masculine shallow-pates),
thus proves to be a remarkable symptom of the increased
weakening and deadening of the most womanly instincts.
There is stupidity in this movement, an almost
masculine stupidity, of which a well-reared woman—who
is always a sensible woman—might be heartily
ashamed. To lose the intuition as to the ground
upon which she can most surely achieve victory; to
neglect exercise in the use of her proper weapons;
to let-herself-go before man, perhaps even “to
the book,” where formerly she kept herself in
control and in refined, artful humility; to neutralize
with her virtuous audacity man’s faith in a veiled,
fundamentally different ideal in woman, something
eternally, necessarily feminine; to emphatically and
loquaciously dissuade man from the idea that woman
must be preserved, cared for, protected, and indulged,
like some delicate, strangely wild, and often pleasant
domestic animal; the clumsy and indignant collection
of everything of the nature of servitude and bondage
which the position of woman in the hitherto existing
order of society has entailed and still entails (as
though slavery were a counter-argument, and not rather
a condition of every higher culture, of every elevation
of culture):—what does all this betoken,
if not a disintegration of womanly instincts, a defeminising?
Certainly, there are enough of idiotic friends and
corrupters of woman among the learned asses of the
masculine sex, who advise woman to defeminize herself
in this manner, and to imitate all the stupidities
from which “man” in Europe, European “manliness,”
suffers,—who would like to lower woman to
“general culture,” indeed even to newspaper
reading and meddling with politics. Here and
there they wish even to make women into free spirits
and literary workers: as though a woman without
piety would not be something perfectly obnoxious or
ludicrous to a profound and godless man;—almost
everywhere her nerves are being ruined by the most
morbid and dangerous kind of music (our latest German
music), and she is daily being made more hysterical
and more incapable of fulfilling her first and last
function, that of bearing robust children. They
wish to “cultivate” her in general still
more, and intend, as they say, to make the “weaker
sex” Strong by culture: as if history
did not teach in the most emphatic manner that the
“cultivating” of mankind and his weakening—that
is to say, the weakening, dissipating, and languishing
of his force of will—have
always kept pace with one another, and that the most
powerful and influential women in the world (and lastly,
the mother of Napoleon) had just to thank their force
of will—and not their schoolmasters—for
their power and ascendancy over men. That which
inspires respect in woman, and often enough fear also,
is her nature, which is more “natural”
than that of man, her genuine, carnivora-like, cunning
flexibility, her tiger-claws beneath the glove, her
naivete in egoism, her untrainableness and innate
wildness, the incomprehensibleness, extent, and deviation
of her desires and virtues. That which, in spite
of fear, excites one’s sympathy for the dangerous
and beautiful cat, “woman,” is that she
seems more afflicted, more vulnerable, more necessitous
of love, and more condemned to disillusionment than
any other creature. Fear and sympathy it is with
these feelings that man has hitherto stood in the
presence of woman, always with one foot already in
tragedy, which rends while it delights—What?
And all that is now to be at an end? And the
DISENCHANTMENT of woman is in progress? The tediousness
of woman is slowly evolving? Oh Europe! Europe!
We know the horned animal which was always most attractive
to thee, from which danger is ever again threatening
thee! Thy old fable might once more become “history”—an
immense stupidity might once again overmaster thee
and carry thee away! And no God concealed beneath
it—no! only an “idea,” a “modern
idea”!