THE REFORMERS.
SOCIAL theories that favor
our passions, peculiarities, defects of character
or weaknesses are readily adopted, and, with minds
of an ardent temper, often become hobbies. There
is a class of persons who are never content with riding
their own hobbies; they must have others mount with
them. All the world is going wrong because it
moves past them—trotting, pacing or galloping,
as it may be, upon its own hobbies. And so they
try to arrest this movement or that, or, gathering
a company of aimless people, they galvanize them with
their own wild purposes, and start them forth into
the world on Quixotic errands.
These persons are never content to
wait for the slow changes that are included in all
orderly developments. Because a thing seems right
to them in the abstract, it must be done now.
They cannot wait for old things to pass away, as preliminary
to the inauguration of what is new.
“If I had the power,”
we have heard one of this class say, “evil and
sorrow and pain should cease from the earth in a moment.”
And in saying this the thought was not concealed that
God had this power, but failed to exercise it.
With them no questions of expediency, no regard for
time-endowed prejudices, no weak spirit of waiting,
no looking for the fullness of time could have any
influence. What they willed to be done must be
done now; and they were impatient and angry at every
one who stood in their way or opposed their theories.
In most cases, you will find these
“reformers,” as they generally style themselves,
governed more by a love of ruling and influencing
others than by a spirit of humanity. They are
one-sided people, and can only see one side of a subject
in clear light. It matters little to them what
is destroyed, so that they can build. If they
possess the gift of language, either as writers or
talkers—have wit, brilliancy and sarcasm—they
make disciples of the less gifted, and influence larger
or smaller circles of men and women. Flattered
by this homage to their talents, they grow more ardent
in the cause which they have espoused, and see, or
affect to see, little else of any importance in the
world. They do some good and much harm. Good,
in drawing general attention to social evils that need
reforming—evil, in causing weak people to
forget common duties in their ambition to set the
world right.
There is always danger in breaking
suddenly away from the regular progression of things
and taking the lead in some new and antagonistic movement.
Such things must and will be; but they who set up
for social reformers must be men and women of pure
hearts, clear minds and the broadest human sympathies.
They must be lovers of their kind, not lovers of themselves;
brave as patriots, not as soldiers of fortune who
seek for booty and renown.
Not many of these true reformers—all
honor to them!—are found among the noisy
coteries that infest the land and turn so many foolish
people away from real duties.
One of the dangers attendant on association
with the class to which we refer lies in the fact
that they draw around them certain free-thinking,
sensual personages, of no very stable morality, who
are ready for anything that gives excitement to their
morbid conditions of mind. Social disasters,
of the saddest kind, are constantly occurring through
this cause. Men and women become at first unsettled
in their opinions, then unsettled in their conduct,
and finally throw off all virtuous restraint.
Mrs. Talbot, the new friend of Mrs.
Emerson, belonged to the better sort of reformers
in one respect. She was a pure-minded woman; but
this did not keep her out of the circle of those who
were of freer thought and action. Being an extremist
on the subject of woman’s social position, she
met and assimilated with others on the basis of a
common sentiment. This threw her in contact with
many from whom she would have shrunk with instinctive
aversion had she known their true quality. Still,
the evil to her was a gradual wearing away, by the
power of steady attrition, of old, true, conservative
ideas in regard to the binding force of marriage.
There was always a great deal said on this subject,
in a light way, by persons for whose opinions on other
subjects she had the highest respect, and this had
its influence. Insensibly her views and feelings
changed, until she found herself, in some cases, the
advocate of sentiments that once would have been rejected
with instinctive repugnance.
This was the woman who was about acquiring
a strong influence over the undisciplined, self-willed
and too self-reliant young wife of Hartley Emerson;
and this was the class of personages among whom her
dangerous friend was about introducing her. At
the house of Mrs. Talbot, where Irene became a frequent
visitor, she met a great many brilliant, talented
and fascinating people, of whom she often spoke to
her husband, for she was too independent to have any
concealments. She knew that he did no like Mrs.
Talbot, but this rather inclined her to a favorable
estimation, and really led to a more frequent intercourse
than would otherwise have been the case.
Once a week Mrs. Talbot held a kind
of conversazione, at which brilliant people and people
with hobbies met to hear themselves talk. Mr.
and Mrs. Emerson had a standing invitation to be present
at these reunions, and, as Irene wished to go, her
husband saw it best not to interpose obstacles.
Besides, as he knew that she went to Mrs. Talbot’s
often in the day-time, and met a good many people
there, he wished to see for himself who they were,
and judge for himself as to their quality. Of
the men who frequented the parlors of Mrs. Talbot,
the larger number had some prefix to their names, as
Professor, Doctor, Major, or Colonel. Most of
the ladies were of a decidedly literary turn—some
had written books, some were magazine contributors,
one was a physician, and one a public lecturer.
Nothing against them in all this, but much to their
honor if their talents and acquirements were used
for the common good.
The themes of conversation at these
weekly gatherings were varied, but social relations
and social reform were in most cases the leading topics.
Two or three evenings at Mrs. Talbot’s were enough
to satisfy Mr. Emerson that the people who met there
were not of a character to exercise a good influence
upon his wife. But how was he to keep her from
associations that evidently presented strong attractions?
Direct opposition he feared to make, for the experience
of a few months had been sufficient to show him that
she would resist all attempts on his part to exercise
a controlling influence.
He tried at first to keep her away
by feigning slight indisposition, or weariness, or
disinclination to go out, and so lead her to exercise
some self-denial for his sake. But her mind was
too firmly bent on going to be turned so easily from
its purpose; she did not consider trifles like these
of sufficient importance to interfere with the pleasures
of an evening at one of Mrs. Talbot’s conversaziones.
Mr. Emerson felt hurt at his wife’s plain disregard
of his comfort and wishes, and said within himself,
with bitterness of feeling, that she was heartless.
One day, at dinner-time, he said to her—
“I shall not be able to go to Mrs. Talbot’s
to-night.”
“Why?” Irene looked at
her husband in surprise, and with a shade of disappointment
on her countenance.
“I have business of importance
with a gentleman who resides in Brooklyn, and have
promised to meet him at his house this evening.”
“You might call for me on your return,”
said Irene.
“The time of my return will
be uncertain. I cannot now tell how late I may
be detained in Brooklyn.”
“I’m sorry.”
And Irene bent down her eyes in a thoughtful way.
“I promised Mrs. Talbot to be there to-night,”
she added.
“Mrs. Talbot will excuse you
when she knows why you were absent.”
“I don’t know about that,” said
Irene.
“She must be a very unreasonable woman,”
remarked Emerson.
“That doesn’t follow.
You could take me there, and Mrs. Talbot find me an
escort home.”
“Who?” Emerson knit his
brows and glanced sharply at his wife. The suggestion
struck him unpleasantly.
“Major Willard, for instance;”
and she smiled in a half-amused, half-mischievous
way.
“You cannot be in earnest, surely?” said
Emerson.
“Why not?” queried his
wife, looking at her husband with calm, searching
eyes.
“You would not, in the first
place, be present there, unaccompanied by your husband;
and, in the second place, I hardly think my wife would
be seen in the street, at night, on the arm of Major
Willard.”
Mr. Emerson spoke like a man who was in earnest.
“Do you know anything wrong of Major Willard?”
asked Irene.
“I know nothing about him, right
or wrong,” was replied. “But, if I
have any skill in reading men, he is very far from
being a fine specimen.”
“Why, Hartley! You have
let some prejudice come in to warp your estimation.”
“No. I have mixed some
with men, and, though my opportunity for observation
has not been large, I have met two or three of your
Major Willards. They are polished and attractive
on the surface, but unprincipled and corrupt.”
“I cannot believe this of Major Willard,”
said Irene.
“It might be safer for you to believe it,”
replied Hartley.
“Safer! I don’t understand you!
You talk in riddles? How safer?”
Irene showed some irritation.
“Safer as to your good name,” replied
her husband.
“My good name is in my own keeping” said
the young wife, proudly.
“Then, for Heaven’s sake,
remain its safe custodian,” replied Emerson.
“Don’t let even the shadow of a man like
Major Willard fall upon it.”
“I am sorry to see you so prejudiced,”
said Irene, coldly; “and sorry, still further,
that you have so poor an opinion of your wife.”
“You misapprehend me,”
returned Hartley. “I am neither prejudiced
nor suspicious. But seeing danger in your way,
as a prudent man I lift a voice of warning. I
am out in the world more than you are, and see more
of its worst side. My profession naturally opens
to me doors of observation that are shut to many.
I see the inside of character, where others look only
upon the fair outside.”
“And so learn to be suspicious
of everybody,” said Irene.
“No; only to read indices that
to many others are unintelligible.”
“I must learn to read them also.”
“It would be well if your sex
and place in the world gave the right opportunity,”
replied Hartley.
“Truly said. And that touches
the main question. Women, immured as they now
are, and never suffered to go out into the world unless
guarded by husband, brother or discreet managing friend,
will continue as weak and undiscriminating as the
great mass of them now are. But, so far as I
am concerned, this system is destined to change.
I must be permitted a larger liberty, and opportunities
for independent observation. I wish to read character
for myself, and make up my own mind in regard to the
people I meet.”
“I am only sorry,” rejoined
her husband, “that your first effort at reading
character and making up independent opinions in regard
to men and principles had not found scope in another
direction. I am afraid that, in trying to get
close enough to the people you meet at Mrs. Talbot’s
for accurate observation, you will draw so near to
dangerous fires as to scorch your garments.”
“Complimentary to Mrs. Talbot!”
“The remark simply gives you
my estimate of some of her favored visitors.”
“And complimentary to your wife,” added
Irene.
“My wife,” said Hartley,
in a serious voice, “is, like myself, young
and inexperienced, and should be particularly cautious
in regard to all new acquaintances—men
or women—particularly if they be some years
her senior, and particularly if they show any marked
desire to cultivate her acquaintance. People
with a large worldly experience, like most of those
we have met at Mrs. Talbot’s, take you and I
at disadvantage. They read us through at a single
sitting, while it may take us months, even years,
to penetrate the disguises they know so well how to
assume.”
“Nearly all of which, touching
the pleasant people we meet at Mrs. Talbot’s,
is assumed,” replied Irene, not at all moved
by her husband’s earnestness.
“You may learn to your sorrow,
when the knowledge comes too late,” he responded,
“that even more than I have assumed is true.”
“I am not in fear of the sorrow,”
was answered lightly.
As Irene, against all argument, persuasion
and remonstrance on the part of her husband, persisted
in her determination to go to Mrs. Talbot’s,
he engaged a carriage to take her there and to call
for her at eleven o’clock.
“Come away alone,” he
said, with impressive earnestness, as he parted from
her. “Don’t let any courteous offer
induce you to accept an attendant when you return
home.”